A Personal Journey of Expat Life in Bali

Life as an expatriate in Bali involves navigating a variety of challenges and discoveries. The term "expatriate" itself, derived from the Latin 'ex' meaning 'out of' and the Greek 'patriate' meaning 'one's own country', describes someone residing outside their homeland. My family and I moved to Bali in March 2023, which has profoundly shaped my understanding of the expat experience here.

In local parlance, expatriates are often called 'bulé', a term used for non-Indonesians, primarily Westerners. While it can have negative overtones, it generally identifies a foreigner in Indonesia.

Living in Bali as an expat is deeply individualistic, shaped by personal backgrounds, aspirations, and experiences. As anthropologist Margaret Mead once noted, our uniqueness unites us.

My Personal Experience Living in Bali

Living in Bali is a blend of delight and complexity. At times, the island is puzzling, yet it feels increasingly like home. There is a constant sense of being an outsider, but also areas where I feel embraced and appreciated. Although I remain culturally distinct, my life here is enriched by these new experiences.

One admirable trait of Balinese culture is patience, especially noticeable on the roads. Even amid chaotic traffic where sudden stops are common, aggression and swearing are rare.

An important lesson in Bali is to curb one's anger. Public displays of irritation are frowned upon, making it vital to adjust one's temperament to fit in. This emphasis on calmness is a facet of Balinese culture I value highly.

Another local practice is the modest display of wealth. Flashy behavior is discouraged, encouraging a more introspective approach to displaying material success. This modesty is another aspect I respect deeply.

In Bali, expats often find themselves stripped of their cultural norms and faced with the choice to reinvent themselves or remain within an expat bubble, isolated from local life.

Finding a Home in Bali

The process of settling in Bali included an engaging exploration of housing options. I delved into the Bali property market, focusing on rentals and the diverse villas available.

The initial phase involved extensive online research and networking with local real estate agents and the expat community to gain insights into the housing landscape. The market's diversity, from traditional homes to luxurious modern villas, offered a peek into various facets of Balinese living.

Visiting these properties was essential. Each location, whether a serene beachfront or a quiet rice paddy setting, offered unique insights into living in Bali. I assessed each home's physical attributes and atmosphere to see if I could envision myself there.

Understanding the legalities and cultural practices of renting in Bali was crucial. I consulted legal experts and experienced expats to navigate the complexities of lease agreements and local regulations.

Ultimately, the choice of my home was influenced by a combination of location allure, home comfort, aesthetic appeal, lease conditions, and a deep sense of belonging. The chosen villa was not just a dwelling but a home that allowed me to immerse in and appreciate local culture while maintaining my lifestyle preferences.